Slow sex | Enjoy your sexual relations even more

Our hectic daily routines and obligations can take a toll on the quality of our intimate relationships. Consider this: How much time do you truly devote to your sexual connections? Is it a mere 10 or perhaps 15 minutes? In Spain, the average duration of a sexual encounter stands at about 16 minutes. Isn't it about time we reconsider and seek to make a change?

A sexual relationship lasts 16 minutes on average, why not improve that figure?

What is slow sex?

Slow sex offers a unique perspective on intimacy, distinct from merely engaging in sexual activities at a leisurely pace. It's an invitation to rediscover the true essence of sexuality – to revel in the moment without haste or disruptions, unlearning past habits and forging fresh connections. It's not about the frequency of our encounters, but rather the quality of our experiences. Slow sex encourages a deeper connection, whether you're indulging in self-discovery or cherishing moments of togetherness. It's about relishing every nuance, from gentle caresses and tender touches to passionate kisses and tantalizing exploration. In the realm of slow sex, your entire body becomes an intricate map to explore, where you can forge profound connections, heightened by the tantalizing play of your senses.

Experience the beauty of slow sex, where every inch of your body is cherished and pleasured. It's about going beyond the obvious and indulging in the journey itself, activating all your senses. Take a moment to relish the small details and fully immerse yourself in the sensations of the present. Let go of inhibitions and allow yourself to be consumed by the pleasure. Are you ready to explore the world of slow sex? Let the adventure begin, one exquisite moment at a time.

Benefits of slow sex

Slow sex is a long-lasting trend, and while occasional quick encounters have their place, there are numerous benefits to indulging in a leisurely and unhurried approach to sexuality. Not only does it allow for a deeper connection and heightened pleasure, but slow sex offers additional advantages you may not be aware of. Are you curious about what else slow sex can do for you? Let's explore the possibilities.

• Through this journey, you'll gain a profound understanding of your desires, unraveling the intricacies of your preferences and pleasures.
• You'll experience heightened sensations as you stay fully present in the moment, savoring every exquisite feeling.
• Prepare to relearn sensations you may have forgotten and explore entirely new ones. Always remember, you're in control and set the boundaries.
• You'll unleash your creativity to discover pleasure in areas you may have overlooked or forgotten, transcending the boundaries of the genitals.
• You'll connect not only with your partner but also with yourself, rekindling your connection with your own sexuality.
• You'll rediscover both your own body and sensations and those of your partner.
• You'll strengthen the bond and communication within your relationship, enhancing the overall connection between you and your partner.

How to practice slow sex?

If we had to summarize what Slow sex is in a single sentence, we would advise you to focus on the present moment, savor every sensation, and fully embrace the journey, emphasizing the significance of exploring and delighting in every part of your body beyond the genitals, allowing all your senses to engage. Slow sex is about relearning to enjoy the profound connection of the intimate experience.

Pay attention to the details and what you are feeling at that precise moment, enjoy each stimulus...

Feel and connect even more, both with yourself and with your partner: caress, touch, kiss, lick... We give you some ideas so you can enjoy it for longer:

• 1. Rediscover your bodies

It might sound obvious, but at times, we tend to overlook what's right in front of us every day. Yes, we're talking about your partner's body and even your own. It's time to take a moment to delve into your bodies without rushing or distractions, allowing yourselves to rediscover one another.

• 2. Prepare the environment

 The ambiance you create can amplify your sensations exponentially. Gentle lighting, soothing music, candles, and incense to set the mood—all these elements combine to enhance the experience manifold!

• 3. Don't be in a hurry

 A fundamental principle of Slow Sex is to engage in it without paying attention to the clock. So, let's abide by this guideline: no more glancing at your watches!

• 4. That there is no lack of communication

We can't emphasize this enough. Communication forms the foundation of any relationship, and when it comes to sex, it's even more crucial to express our desires and preferences. With all the time in the world at your disposal, now is the perfect opportunity to do so.

• 5. Play with the senses  

The deprivation of one of the senses will make the experience much more exciting. In this case, a mask or a rope can become the best accessory.

• 6. A good massage

A Slow Sex session provides the ideal opportunity for a sensual, leisurely erotic massage. When you choose to engage in it, commit yourself fully. Want to learn how? We're here to provide you with the finest tips for achieving the perfect erotic massage.

• 7. Oral sex

Oral sex is something that, when done well, can give a lot of pleasure. If you need inspiration to perform unforgettable cunnilingus, we recommend reading our complete guides to oral sex for vulvas.

• 8. Erotic toys

Absolutely, introducing toys into your intimate moments can introduce a new level of pleasure, provided you steer clear of direct genital stimulation. Harness the diverse functions of these toys to awaken and stimulate various areas of the body before embarking on exploration of the penis or vulva, and you'll find that the sensual journey is a highly rewarding experience.

• 9. Penetration

Penetration, yes or no?… If you want to culminate the experience by enjoying penetration, do it! Change “speed” to “intensity” and voilà.

• 10. And begin again!  

With an abundance of time at your disposal and not a single distraction in sight, why not embark on a fresh start? You can repeat this step as many times as your heart desires...

The best allies to enjoy slow sex

While it's undeniably possible to savor Slow sex using just your bodies - your fingers, your hands, any part of your anatomy can be perfect tools for indulging in this form of sexual intimacy - you might wish to take it a step further. Various accessories can become your finest allies, enriching your experience. In addition to the well-known erotic cosmetics, certain brands have embraced the art of the Slow experience by crafting a dedicated range designed for this practice.

• Heat effect massage oil

This erotic oil with a heating effect is edible, and has a wonderful unctuous texture that will turn caresses into highly intense stimuli.

• Solid body perfume

You might be discovering solid perfumes for the first time. If so, this solid perfume boasting a delightful coconut aroma not only imparts a sweet and invigorating fragrance but also offers your skin superb hydration. The best part is, you can apply it anywhere on your body!

• Anal stimulation gel

Certain erotic activities, like anal sex, demand particular attention to lubrication. This anal stimulation gel is designed to both hydrate and enhance stimulation in this area of your body, promising more fulfilling and enjoyable intimate experiences.

• Oral sex spray

The more saliva, the more pleasure: the equation seems simple. All you need is to apply a couple of sprays of this humidifying spray on your tongue and you will enjoy oral sex even more.

• Clitoral stimulating balm

This balm works its magic after a gentle massage, harnessing the stimulating properties of ginseng and arginine to enhance clitoral sensitivity. Just a few carefully placed drops, and you're in for an extraordinary experience!

• Nipple stimulating gel

With its innovative application method featuring a small metallic roll-on, this nipple stimulating gel will send shivers down your spine the moment its contents touch your skin.

• Illuminating dry oil

A mere few drops of this sensuous elixir will elevate the pleasure of every caress, leaving in its wake a luxurious blend of radiance, silkiness, and an alluring fragrance that lingers on every inch of your body.

What to avoid during slow sex

If you've made it this far, you're probably well aware that Slow sex stands in stark contrast to fleeting encounters or what's typically considered a quickie. However, to make your experience even more enjoyable, we'd like to emphasize what to avoid by listing everything that doesn't align with the philosophy of slowness:

• Rush.
• The distractions.
• Have your mind somewhere else.
• Not enjoying the moment.
• Penetration as the only purpose.

Indulge in sex without haste, free from preconceptions, and most importantly, devoid of rigid rules to heighten your intimate connections. Let's relegate the concept of "foreplay" to the past and redefine it as an integral part of the experience itself.

Slow sex serves as a means to disconnect from the pressures of daily life, allowing you to fully immerse yourself in the present moment and savor the sensations of "now." However, if you find it challenging to be entirely present, there's no need to stress. Engage in an open conversation with your partner and explore alternative ways to relish your erotic encounters. There will always be opportunities for the pleasures of slow sex at another time.

Let's enjoy more, let's feel more!

In the realm of pleasure, there are no hard and fast rules. Now is the perfect time to rewrite the playbook and craft your own unique path to unlimited pleasure. Slow sex invites you to embrace this opportunity and create an intimate experience like no other. It's about exploring your desires, savoring each moment, and indulging in the pleasure that resonates with you. So, are you ready to embark on this liberating journey of self-expression and sensory delight? Let's dive into the world of slow sex and create our own rules for boundless pleasure.