How to masturbate a penis in 8 steps

In this guide, we'll walk you through 8 straightforward steps to bring a person with a penis to climax using your hands. Remember, these techniques are meant to enhance pleasure, but the best way to ensure a fun experience is by communicating and asking your partner about their preferences.

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8 Steps for Epic Masturbation 

Step 1: Lubricate for Maximum Pleasure

To master the art of masturbating a person with a penis, the first crucial step is to ensure your hands are well lubricated. Just like vulvas, penises require lubrication for optimal enjoyment. If you don't have any on hand, you can find high-quality water-based lubricants at this link.

Step 2: Tenderly Caress the Testicles

Using your fingertips, gently stroke his testicles. Start with slow and gentle motions, maintaining eye contact with your partner. This area is highly sensitive, and you'll witness the pleasure it brings him. Enjoy exploring and discovering what feels best for both of you.

Step 3: Pleasure the Shaft

As you continue caressing his testicles with one hand, use your other hand to gently slide two fingers up and down the shaft of the penis. Maintain direct eye contact with your partner throughout. The intensity of this sensation will drive them wild with pleasure. Enjoy the intimate connection you're creating.

Step 4: Grip and Circle the Glans

Securely hold the base of the penis and use your cupped palm to make circular movements around the glans, also known as the tip. If needed, apply a bit more lubricant to ensure a smooth and pleasurable experience, taking care not to cause any discomfort. You'll witness how much your partner enjoys this stimulating sensation.

Step 5: Slide and Sync

Place your hand on the glans and smoothly slide it down the shaft of the penis. As your hand approaches the base, raise your other hand to the tip and repeat the downward movement. Synchronize these motions as much as possible, akin to climbing a rope with your hands. Repeat this rhythmic pattern, and you'll create an exhilarating sensation that heightens pleasure. Enjoy the synchronized dance of pleasure.

Step 6: Fire-Lighting Stimulation

To switch things up, generously apply lubricant to your hands. With your palms spread wide, rub the shaft of the penis as if you're igniting a fire, Last Survivor style. Gradually increase the speed and intensity, but be mindful not to go overboard or cause any discomfort. Enjoy the heightened pleasure without crossing the line.

Step 7: Build-up to Orgasm

Prepare for his orgasmic bliss! Focus on the glans, particularly the frenulum, with one hand using circular motions. As a "support," use your other hand to hold the base of the penis steady. For an even more intense experience, consider using our penis massager Devourer, designed to stimulate the glans. If you're feeling adventurous, blindfold him for an extra thrill. He'll be overwhelmed with pleasure, not knowing what delightful surprises you have in store.

Step 8: Intensify the Pleasure

For an unforgettable experience, take pleasure to new heights. Place a powerful vibrating bullet between the anus and the testicles, at the base of the scrotum. Simultaneously, use your other hand to massage the shaft of the penis. The combination of vibrations and stimulation will drive him wild with pleasure. Explore this heightened sensation and create an unforgettable experience together.

BONUS TIP: Exploring Anal Stimulation

For an adventurous and pleasure-seeking partner, take it to the next level by incorporating anal or prostate stimulation during masturbation. For beginners, using a finger or a small butt plug, like this, is recommended. Remember, the anus doesn't naturally lubricate, so ensure you have an anal lubricant on hand to avoid any discomfort.

And if you're eager to become an expert in pleasuring a person with a penis, we recommend checking out our article on foolproof penis massages. Expand your knowledge and elevate your skills to new heights of pleasure.

Is Masturbation Healthy for Men?

Absolutely! Masturbation is a natural and healthy activity that allows you to explore your fantasies and understand your own pleasure. It offers more than just sexual release; there are numerous health benefits associated with solo play, such as:

• Stress relief: Masturbation can help reduce stress levels and provide a sense of relaxation.
• Mood boost: Engaging in self-pleasure releases endorphins and dopamine, which can enhance your mood and overall well-being.
• Improved sleep: Masturbation can aid in better sleep by promoting a sense of calm and relaxation.

Embrace the positive aspects of solo play and enjoy the physical and mental well-being it can bring.

What's the Right Frequency for Male Masturbation?

There's no definitive answer to how often one should masturbate—it's a personal choice. Enjoy some quality time with your body as frequently as you desire.

Rather than obsessing over a specific frequency, focus on whether masturbation is impacting other aspects of your life. As long as it doesn't interfere with work or hinder your sexual experiences with a partner, there's no cause for concern. However, if you find that it starts affecting your daily life or intimate relationships, it may be helpful to consult a sex therapist for guidance. Remember, the key is finding a balance that suits you and your overall well-being.