Shibari: Benefits of putting erotic art into practice

Let's start by elucidating that shibari is the intricate art of sensually, dramatically, and erotically tying ropes. Its purpose is to convey emotions to those who practice it, those who submit to its intricate beauty, and those who appreciate it from an observer's perspective.

What is the origin of shibari? 

The origins of shibari trace back to Japan during the Edo dynasty (1600 – 1878). While earlier practices involved wrist and foot ligatures as methods of torture, it was during this period that the martial art of hobaku-jutsu emerged. The primary objective was to ensnare and immobilize enemies or criminals through the artful use of ropes.

An intriguing aspect lies in the diversity of techniques employed by different samurai families. The distinct materials and types of ligatures used allowed for the identification of the practitioner. Moreover, this method served to reveal the social class of the detainee or the nature of the alleged crime.

Towards the end of the Edo period, shibari underwent a transformative shift. It evolved from being a martial and torture technique into the art form that we recognize today, marked by the emergence of the first visual representations of shibari.

What is the difference between shibari and bondage?

Certainly, the distinction between shibari and bondage is a common curiosity. The primary difference lies in the emphasis of each practice. Bondage typically centers around the immobilization of the person being tied. In contrast, shibari transcends mere restraint; it is an erotic art form that delves deeper into aesthetics and the geometric intricacies of the ties. Shibari demands a more advanced technique and places significance on the visual appeal of the restraints.

In essence, shibari can be defined as "not about tying someone, but about tying up with someone," encompassing the nuanced and intimate connections inherent in the practice.

How is shibari performed?

The art of shibari involves the use of ropes, typically measuring between 7 to 8 meters, although variations in length can be encountered. These ropes are crafted from natural fibers like hemp, jute, coconut, rice, or cotton. The choice of natural fibers is deliberate, as they are well-suited for creating ties without causing injuries. Importantly, the raw material contributes to the overall aesthetic integral to shibari's disciplined practice.

Shibari practitioners skillfully manipulate these ropes to create intricate and visually captivating patterns, emphasizing not only the physical restraint but also the artistic and emotional aspects of the experience. 

Some common shibari patterns are:

• (Ushiro) Takate Kote or Gote: Often used as the base of the tie. It captures the upper part of the torso by immobilizing the arms usually behind the back ("ushiro" means "behind") in a "U" or "X" shape.
• Kikkou: Body binding with hexagonal shapes (similar to a turtle shell) on the front of the torso.
• Hishi: With diamond (rhomboid) shapes. It is one of the most popular ways. In the West, the term "karada" (in Japanese, "body") has been used for some of its variants.
• Matanawa: Focused on the genital part.
• Ebi: It is similar to a sitting lotus position with the back very curved over the legs.
• Tazuki: Cross body harness in the shape of an "X".
• Tsuri: Any bondage that includes body suspension.  
• Teppou: "Rifle" binding, which places the arms following a diagonal line.
• Gote Gasshou: Binding with the hands behind the back in a prayer position.

Benefits of practicing shibari:

• Dopamine levels among those who practice usually increase after each encounter, generating a decrease in anxiety and stress.
• Increases trust in the couple, obtaining self-knowledge and also knowledge of others, both mental and physical, emotional and sensory.
• Improves the quality of communication with your partner.
• Although sex is not essential for Shibari, in many cases the sexual act is more dynamic and exciting.

We know it may sound complex, but it is important to always keep in mind that practice makes perfect. Dare to try it and innovate as a couple, tell us how it goes or if you have advice for our toys!