How to get more out of the missionary position

The missionary position is undoubtedly one of the most famous in the Kamasutra. Even if you're not familiar with the term, it's likely you've practiced it without realizing because it's one of the most instinctive postures. And for those already acquainted, perhaps words like "boring," "dull," or "repetitive" come to mind. Could it be spiced up a bit?

The missionary...? We turn it around, never better said!  

Absolutely! You can certainly add a twist (or two) to this popular position to make it more adventurous and pleasurable.

What is the missionary?

The missionary position, featured in the renowned Kamasutra, has also become the most well-known and widely practiced position for couples to enjoy intimate relations. 

Missionary is the most used position during sexual relations, but can it be improved?  

In the traditional missionary position, one person lies face up with their legs slightly open and bent, while the other person lies on top, face down, using their arms for support during penetration. However, there are a few ways to enhance this position and add some extra excitement.

Why is it called “missionary posture”?

The missionary position has a long history, with ties to religious and cultural influences. Historically, it was the only position accepted by the Catholic Church to avoid committing a mortal sin during sexual relations, as it was seen as more suitable for procreation and less erotic.

When missionaries arrived in the New World, they attempted to impose Catholic moral guidelines on indigenous populations, encouraging them to abandon other positions deemed sinful and embrace the accepted Christian way of practicing sex.

Originally referred to as the "angelic posture" or snake posture, the term "missionary" as we know it today was first recorded in 1948 in Alfred Kinsey's book "Sexual Behavior in the Human Male." The term gained popularity and became widely used to describe this sexual position.

Variants of the missionary posture

The missionary position is known for its simplicity, but it can be further enhanced by exploring various variations. Even small changes can have a significant impact on intensifying the experience and adding excitement to this classic position. By being open to experimentation and trying different techniques, couples can discover new levels of pleasure and intimacy. Whether it's adjusting angles, incorporating additional stimulation, or exploring different movements, the key is to communicate with your partner and find what works best for both of you. With a sense of exploration and a willingness to try new things, the missionary position can become even more enjoyable and satisfying. 

The thousand and one variants of the missionary.  

The missionary with elevated legs

The missionary position also offers variations depending on how we position our legs. One such variation is raising the legs. By lifting the legs slightly in the missionary position, it can create a different sensation and enhance the overall experience. This can be done by raising one or both legs, encircling the partner with the legs, or utilizing nearby surfaces like a wall for additional support. These small changes can significantly alter the sensory experience and add a new level of excitement and pleasure to the intimate encounter. Exploring different leg positions within the missionary position can lead to delightful discoveries and enhance the overall enjoyment for both partners.

The blocking missionary

The blocking missionary position, as its name suggests, involves the person receiving penetration using their legs to create a blocking effect against their partner. In this position, the roles are reversed from the original missionary position, with the person being penetrated on top and the penetrating partner on the bottom.

To assume this position, the person receiving penetration stretches their legs and keeps them slightly closed, utilizing them to create a blocking or pressing sensation against their partner. The pressure generated by the legs adds intensity and can enhance the pleasure experienced during the act.

Experimenting with different positions and techniques, such as the blocking missionary, can bring variety and excitement to intimate encounters, allowing couples to explore and discover new sensations together. Remember to communicate with your partner, prioritize comfort, and adjust the position to suit both partners' preferences and comfort levels.

The dominating missionary

In the dominating missionary position, the person being penetrated takes on a dominant role throughout the encounter. To assume this position, the person receiving penetration bends their legs and uses their feet as points of support on the bed or any other surface. This allows them to have more control and assert their dominance.

The person who is penetrating, on the other hand, should relinquish some control and let themselves go with the movements initiated by the person being penetrated. Rather than actively driving the motions, they should allow their partner to take charge and dictate the pace and intensity of the experience.

The zen pause

The zen pause is a delightful variation of the missionary position that offers a relaxing yet exciting experience. To assume this position, both partners lie on the bed facing each other. The person receiving penetration places one leg above their partner's leg, and together they engage in a synchronized movement.

This position allows for a moment of pause and connection during intimate moments. It promotes a sense of relaxation and closeness between partners, creating an intimate and serene atmosphere. The shared movement and physical contact can enhance the sensory experience and deepen the emotional connection.

Toys to use in the missionary

To innovate even more and multiply the pleasure, you can include toys while you enjoy this position.

Clitoris suckers

Clitoral suckers are innovative toys designed to provide targeted stimulation to the clitoris, and they can indeed be a great addition to enhance pleasure during the missionary position. These toys utilize suction technology to create a gentle or intense sucking sensation on the clitoral area.

When used during the missionary position, clitoral suckers can envelop the clitoris in a pleasurable sensation, adding an extra layer of excitement and intensity to the experience. The pulsations of the toy's membrane create a suction effect, enhancing blood flow and sensitivity in the clitoral area. 

Vibrating rings

Vibrating rings, like the Sual, can be a great addition to enhance the experience of the missionary position. These rings are designed to be worn around the base of the penis, providing several benefits.

Firstly, vibrating rings can help improve the strength and duration of erections by constricting blood flow and creating a firmer sensation. This can lead to increased pleasure for both partners during penetration.

Additionally, the vibrating bullet attached to the ring can transmit vibrations to various areas. The vibrations can stimulate the clitoral area, providing pleasurable sensations for the person with a vulva. The base of the ring can also deliver vibrations to the surrounding areas, offering additional stimulation for both partners.

Clamp toys

Clamp-shaped toys, such as the Hale, are designed for couples where one person has a vulva, and they can indeed enhance the experience of the missionary position. These toys typically have a clamp-like design that allows for simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and the G-spot, while also providing additional sensation to the penis during penetration.

The unique shape of clamp toys allows for targeted stimulation and can intensify pleasure for both partners. When used in the missionary position, the toy can be positioned to provide direct stimulation to the clitoris and G-spot while the penis is inserted into the vagina. This combination of internal and external stimulation can create a more intense and pleasurable experience for both partners.

Vibrating bullets

Vibrating bullets, such as the Love Egg, are small and discreet toys that offer a range of pleasurable sensations. They can be used to stimulate various erogenous zones and provide additional excitement during intimate moments.

When it comes to the missionary position, vibrating bullets can be particularly enjoyable for clitoral stimulation. The compact size and powerful vibrations of these toys make them ideal for enhancing pleasure during penetrative sex. By placing the vibrating bullet against the clitoris while in the missionary position, individuals can experience heightened sensations and potentially reach orgasm more easily. 

Anal plugs

Anal plugs, such as the A3, are specifically designed for anal stimulation and can be incorporated into various sexual practices. They can be worn during penetration or while receiving penetration, adding an extra layer of pleasure and intensity to the experience.

For an added twist of arousal, some individuals enjoy removing the anal plug right at the moment of climax. This can create a heightened sensation and intensify the orgasmic experience. It's important to note that this practice may not be suitable or comfortable for everyone, so it's essential to communicate with your partner and ensure that both parties are enthusiastic and consenting.

Multi-position toys

Multi-position toys like Rosena and Fellare are mouth-shaped stimulators specifically designed for couples to enjoy together. These innovative toys offer a range of exciting possibilities that will ignite your desire for experimentation. With their biting silicone lips and built-in vibration motor, they provide a multitude of combinations for pleasure.

One enticing way to incorporate these toys is by placing them around the breasts during the missionary position. As the penis is introduced into the vagina, the mouth-shaped toy can stimulate the nipples simultaneously, intensifying the overall experience. The combination of penetrative sensations and nipple stimulation can create a heightened sense of pleasure and arousal for both partners.