Explaining why blowjobs feel 10 times better than penetration, and tips for the best blowjobs that will make men writhe in agony.

Many women aspire to improve their blowjob skills and receive praise from their male partners. While it may seem like just a blowjob, the impact on your sexual connection can be significant, contributing to a more fulfilling relationship.

If you're thinking about marrying your current boyfriend or have someone special in mind, honing your blowjob skills can be a meaningful step toward strengthening your bond. Fellatio has a unique power to deepen intimacy.

This article aims to provide a comprehensive guide to an incredibly pleasurable blowjob that will leave men in ecstasy. If you're interested in enhancing the intimacy in your relationship through sex, read on for insights and techniques.

86% of men like blowjobs! On the other hand, what is the percentage of women who give blowjobs?

In this chapter, we delve into the profound effects of fellatio on intimacy within relationships with men.

In the preceding chapter, some women may have questioned, "Does engaging in intimate acts enhance the likelihood of marriage? That seems absurd."

To begin, let's examine the findings from a survey of 100 men, revealing a staggering 86% expressing a preference for fellatio. It's evident that most men desire this form of intimacy.

Contrastingly, insights from a survey of 100 women show that only 27% engage in giving fellatio. This suggests that, despite men's clear inclination, many have not experienced it to their satisfaction.

Mastering the art of fellatio can significantly elevate your nocturnal adventures, making daily life more affectionate. A study on American couples even suggests a proportional relationship between satisfaction in intimate moments and overall happiness in daily life.

Now, why do men find fellatio appealing? The genuine opinions of men who participated in the survey will shed light on this intriguing aspect. Let's explore their perspectives.

Why do men like blowjobs?

Before delving into the art of perfecting blowjob techniques, it's crucial to understand why men are drawn to this intimate act. Without insight into what makes it pleasurable, mastering the art becomes a challenge.

Within this chapter, we've compiled the reasons behind the resounding declaration from 86 men: "I love blowjobs!" These insights, presented in order of popularity, provide a comprehensive understanding of why men hold such affection for this form of intimacy. Let's explore these perspectives together.

1. With your lips and tongue, you can experience a soft pleasure that is different from vaginal pressure.

    The predominant reason, as voiced by a majority of men, centers around the unique stimulation that blowjobs offer compared to the pressure experienced during vaginal intercourse. This perspective underscores the distinct nature of the pleasure derived from this intimate act.

    While this stimulation may not necessarily lead to ejaculation, it's the gentle and subtle nature of the pleasure that resonates most. Some liken it to the exquisite sensation of having stiff shoulders expertly massaged, emphasizing the soft and nuanced enjoyment derived from a blowjob.

    A notable distinction lies in the pressure dynamics: unlike the even pressure exerted by the vagina, a blowjob introduces a more sporadic and varied pressure. It is precisely this irregular pleasure that stands out as the primary reason why men find it so appealing and supportive of this intimate experience.

    2. There are many variations in stimulation

      An essential aspect of deriving pleasure from sexual experiences is avoiding monotony in stimulation, a sentiment that resonates universally across genders.

      Blowjobs excel in providing diverse stimulation, offering distinct sensations at various points of arousal. Whether it's the pleasure experienced at the glans, the sensation along the shaft, or the unique pleasure derived from attention to the testicles, each aspect presents an entirely different facet of pleasure.

      The popularity of fellatio can be attributed, in part, to this rich variety in stimulation. The nuanced differences in sensation contribute to a heightened and dynamic sexual experience, emphasizing the importance of diversity in pleasurable encounters.

      3. You can lick the neck and back stripes with pinpoint precision.

        While pinpoint stimulation undeniably offers a satisfying sensation, its capacity to induce a monumental orgasm is limited. Nevertheless, it remains a noteworthy and pleasurable aspect of intimacy.

        Drawing a comparison to the female experience, the sensation of ejaculation can be likened to the intensity of climaxing on the clitoris. In contrast, pinpoint stimulation is akin to the tantalizing feeling of having your ear or neck delicately licked—a nuanced and enjoyable sensation that doesn't necessarily lead to a profound orgasmic release.

        For those seeking an indescribable tingling sensation, exploring a combination of areas such as the glans, tip, neck, frenulum, and urethral opening can provide a diverse and heightened experience. It's the orchestration of these sensations that often leads to a uniquely pleasurable encounter, transcending the limitations of singular stimulation.

        4. You will feel a sense of service and control, and your love will deepen.

          The innate desire to be served plays a significant role in the pleasure men derive from receiving a blowjob. This fundamental aspect of human nature enhances the enjoyment of the act.

          It's often noted that men find visual stimuli particularly exciting, while women are stimulated more mentally. The spectacle of a man receiving a blowjob encompasses a myriad of visually arousing elements. The image of a woman willingly taking the initiative, kneeling down, and attending to her partner's intimate desires becomes not just visually thrilling but also endearing.

          In this intimate exchange, the meeting of physical desire and the visual spectacle intertwine to create a pleasurable and captivating experience for men, underscoring the intricate dynamics of human arousal.

          5. A woman's facial expression distorted during a blowjob. Because the sense of immorality that arises is irresistible

            A considerable number of men identify as having submissive tendencies, with a survey of 453 men in their 20s revealing that over 70% positioned their sexual preference between soft and hard S.

            The visual spectacle of a woman, usually impeccably made up, opening her mouth wide to engage in intimate acts, appears to be a significant source of excitement for many men. It's not just the act itself but the transformation of a familiar face into one expressing a unique sensuality, a facet not visible in everyday life, that captivates them.

            The special facial expressions that manifest during intimate moments carry a sense of immorality, a departure from the norm, which seems to be a key driver of pleasure for men. The allure lies in the transformation of this perceived immorality into a source of heightened enjoyment during the intimate act of fellatio.

            [Basic version] 8 fellatio techniques that will please your boyfriend

            Sorry to keep you waiting. Finally, an explanation of fellatio.

            For those of you who are inexperienced with men, let's start with the basics. If you master these basics, most men will find it pleasant.

            1. Gently touch the penis with your hand

              Avoid abruptly moving to sucking the penis; teasing is crucial to heighten a man's pleasure. Initiate with a delicate feather touch.

              Softly caress his already swollen penis as you engage in kissing. It's important to avoid excessive pressure; instead, opt for a gentle touch. For women with long nails, consider incorporating them into the touch. Tracing along the shaft as if teasing or hesitating adds to the anticipation.

              Continue with this technique until precum starts to emerge from the urethra. Once the precum becomes noticeable, transition to the next technique.

              2. Lick the area around the penis such as the testicles to irritate them

                Even at this stage, refrain from directly licking the rod or glans. This phase is still part of the teasing process.

                Begin by focusing on the groin area. For men with thick pubic hair, experiment with licking the pelvic region. The sensation is likely to be intense, and many men may squirm as a result of the tickling and pleasurable feelings.

                Continue by licking the testicles with an abundance of saliva, employing irregular movements with both the belly and tip of the tongue. Avoid monotonous patterns. At this juncture, the man may be eagerly anticipating attention to his penis. Once you sense that the precum is on the verge of overflowing, proceed to lick it from the glans.

                3. Gently lick the glans with your tongue

                  Use your tongue to gently and slowly lick the glans, removing any overflowing precum. Be cautious not to apply too much pressure at this stage. Alternate between using the belly and tip of your tongue, avoiding excessive focus on the same areas to prevent desensitization.

                  Before the man becomes accustomed to the stimulation, vary your approach by licking the entire shaft from the base. Aim to spend approximately 1 minute on licking the glans. If you encounter precum, and for women who may not appreciate it, you can discreetly spit it out without disrupting the mood by licking it off and then spitting onto the glans.

                  4. Wrap the glans with your mouth

                    After ensuring the penis is adequately wet with saliva, proceed to suck the glans into your mouth, ensuring to avoid contact with your teeth. To prevent any accidental collisions with your teeth, safeguard your upper teeth with your upper lip and your lower teeth with your tongue.

                    Once the penis is in your mouth, initiate a slow clockwise rotation of your tongue. Circle your tongue around the penis neck in a gentle, circular motion. The key here is to refrain from swallowing, allowing your mouth to remain filled with saliva.

                    Given that the glans is the most sensitive part of the penis, insufficient saliva can lead to friction and discomfort. Without enough lubrication, it might feel akin to having your clitoris peeled and forcefully licked with a dry tongue, causing pain—a sensation that women can relate to as well.

                    If you find it challenging to generate enough saliva, consider deep-throating the penis. While this may induce a sensation of wanting to sob, the physiological phenomenon known as the gag reflex will trigger the secretion of saliva to maintain moisture in your mouth.

                    5. Stroke slowly while placing your lips on the penis.

                      At this stage, you can transition to stroking. Begin by placing it in your mouth and eliminating any gap between your lips and the penis. Position it to stimulate the muscles behind the penis with the belly of your tongue. Opt for slow strokes, aiming for approximately 2 seconds per round trip.

                      Maximize the ground contact area and ensure your mouth is filled with saliva. In this basic section, there's no need to deep-throat to the point of triggering a gag reflex. Focus on increasing the ground contact area and executing slower strokes. After about 3 minutes of fellatio, you can proceed to the next technique.

                      6. Stroke rhythmically while looking into your boyfriend's eyes.

                        After the initial three minutes, begin gradually increasing the speed. The crucial element here is to maintain eye contact with your partner while consistently delivering a blowjob at an accelerating pace.

                        Direct eye contact during the act stimulates the sense of immorality, as explained in the chapter "Why Men Like Blowjobs." While earlier criticisms focused on irregularity and monotonous stimulation, at this stage, the dynamics change. Men in this heightened state experience an elevated pleasure voltage, and pre-orgasmic stimulation requires a specific rhythm.

                        However, it's equally important to avoid continuous stimulation with a monotonous rhythm. Striking the right balance is challenging, but aim to sustain a constant speed while stroking for approximately three minutes during this phase.

                        7. Change the speed of your strokes so you don't get bored.

                          In this phase, we'll introduce some variation to the stroke. After maintaining a steady rhythm for a consistent three minutes of the blowjob, abruptly slow down the pace.

                          Essentially, this involves repeating steps 4 and 5. The pleasure derived from quick strokes and the unique stimulation provided by a slow blowjob are distinct experiences. Introduce variations in stimulation to keep the experience dynamic and prevent monotony.

                          During this phase, the man is in a state of anticipation—feeling on the brink of climax but not quite reaching it. The rapid strokes create a sensation of impending climax, while the slower strokes introduce a teasing element. After approximately three minutes of this alternating rhythm, the blowjob is brought to completion by rapidly increasing the speed of the strokes.

                          8. Finish with a high-speed stroke

                            This aspect is specifically for those aiming to achieve climax through oral stimulation. Once you've reached this stage, it's time to bring it all together in one concerted effort.

                            Engage in rapid and wide strokes, prioritizing a broader stroke width over intense stimulation of the glans. Concentrate on providing strong stimulation to the rod, particularly focusing on the frenulum.

                            The rhythmic "Chup-chup" sound is a crucial element. The sound of a blowjob echoing in a quiet space shared by the intimate partners heightens a man's sexual desire. The combination of the anticipation built through ASMR and the teasing stimulation culminates in an unexpectedly easy climax that might take you by surprise.

                            [Advanced version] 7 advanced blowjob techniques to further satisfy your boyfriend

                            The seven blowjob techniques I'll introduce next are considered advanced, and it's advisable to try them after mastering the basic blowjob technique. Taking on these challenges without a solid foundation in the basics can lead to an experience where one is putting in effort but may not achieve the desired results—akin to someone attempting a technique not suited to their skill level or height.

                            Let's learn gradually in the order of 1 to 7.

                            1. Give a blowjob while squeezing the shaft with your hands

                              To enhance the blowjob technique I introduced earlier, you can add the stimulation of jerking by incorporating a horizontal rotation. Instead of the typical up-and-down motion of a regular hand job, apply a sideways rotating pressure, akin to revving a motorcycle's accelerator.

                              During a blowjob, the action involves taking it into your mouth and then pulling it towards you, revealing only the rod. Focus on squeezing this exposed part of the rod, allowing it to rotate around your wrist. Ensure there's an ample amount of saliva for optimal comfort.

                              Combining the pleasure of a blowjob with the added sensation of a horizontal hand job takes the experience to a whole new level. The heightened pleasure may be so intense that it elicits involuntary exclamations of pleasure.

                              2. Suck the penis strongly with a vacuum blow job

                                Are you familiar with the vacuum blowjob technique? It involves creating a vacuum inside the mouth to simulate the sensation of a tight squeeze on the penis.

                                I didn't cover it in the basics section because the risk of accidentally hitting the penis with your teeth increases when creating a vacuum. As it's a more advanced technique, I'll introduce it in this section. The key principles of guarding the upper teeth with the upper lip and the lower teeth with the tongue remain the same as the basic technique.

                                To execute a vacuum blowjob, the trick is to remove air only from within the mouth, rather than inhaling into the chest. Think of it like sipping a drink through a straw. Once the vacuum is established, there's no need to suck in air while stroking. By following the fellatio method introduced in the basics, you'll naturally be able to perform a vacuum blowjob.

                                3. Give a slippery feeling with a lotion blow job

                                  For women who might not have much experience with giving blowjobs, there's a straightforward method that doesn't require advanced skills. Just use some lotion in your mouth and follow the basic techniques mentioned earlier.

                                  Many women new to blowjobs might unintentionally provide too much stimulation to the glans, like accidentally touching it with teeth, swallowing saliva, or giving a dry blowjob.

                                  The key here is to keep your mouth adequately moisturized. By doing so, you can easily deliver a pleasant and enjoyable blowjob. This uncomplicated approach is perfect for those starting out, emphasizing the importance of making the experience comfortable and enjoyable for both partners.

                                  4. Attack until the very edge of ejaculation and stop it.

                                    The technique of repeatedly stopping during intimate moments offers a distinct advantage by significantly intensifying the sensation of ejaculation.

                                    It's essential to recognize that the pleasure men derive from ejaculation is fleeting, designed to provide a brief yet powerful orgasmic experience. The deliberate act of stopping is aimed at maximizing this momentary pleasure.

                                    As a man becomes increasingly excited, incorporating strategic stops enhances the overall pleasure he can experience. Utilize the foundational techniques you've learned to experiment with stopping, and your partner is likely to be captivated by the heightened sensation during the final release.

                                    It's worth noting that, in my experience, women who take the initiative in these situations are relatively rare. Consequently, many men may not have had the opportunity to experience the heightened pleasure associated with strategic stops. By incorporating these techniques, you can offer a unique and unforgettable experience, setting yourself apart from others in the realm of foreplay.

                                    5. Deep throat to stimulate the glans in the back of the throat

                                      Deep Throat is a blowjob technique that focuses on intensive stimulation of the glans at the back of the throat, hence its name.

                                      To achieve deep throating, consider the following steps: when looking at your wide-open mouth in the mirror, you'll notice the tightness at the back of your throat. This technique involves taking the glans into the mouth up to that point.

                                      As you would when attempting a deep throat, feel your esophagus opening. Maintain this state while giving a blowjob. The key to successful deep throating is to use quick strokes; doing it slowly may lead to gagging and hinder the blowjob experience. While it may take some getting used to, practicing gradual and deep sucking is recommended for improved comfort and proficiency over time.

                                      6. Make him writhe in agony with an anaconda blowjob trained as a porn star

                                        The Deep Throat and Anaconda Blowjob techniques share similarities, with the key distinction being that, unlike in deep throating, the tongue doesn't remain inside the cavity but extends continuously, reminiscent of a snake.

                                        This advanced technique intensifies the sensation of gagging as the tongue consistently extends outward. By incorporating the tongue, the softest and most pliable part of the oral cavity, and taking it deep into the throat, a variety of pleasures can be offered to both the glans and shaft. Notably, this technique is often employed by adult film stars for its heightened appeal.

                                        7. Stimulate the entire glans with tornado blowjob

                                          The Tornado Blowjob is a technique that involves using the neck as a fulcrum, incorporating a side-to-side shaking motion while giving a blowjob.

                                          As mentioned earlier, monotony can be the enemy of sexual pleasure. The Tornado Blowjob offers a contrasting approach by introducing irregular stimulation. Tilting your head during the act ensures that the stimulation is unpredictable and continuous, providing a different level of sensation.

                                          It's essential to note that trying new techniques on your boyfriend or partner may not yield immediate results. The primary goal is to prioritize their pleasure and create an enjoyable and varied experience. Communication and responsiveness to your partner's cues are key elements in refining and tailoring techniques to suit both of your preferences.

                                          If you learn how to give a pleasant blowjob, you'll be able to get along well with him! 4 must-have techniques

                                          While almost 90% of men express a fondness for receiving blowjobs, interestingly, fewer than 30% of women share the same sentiment about giving them. The disparity between supply and demand is quite surprising.

                                          On the flip side, improving blowjob techniques can significantly enhance men's sexual satisfaction. A fulfilling nightlife often contributes to increased intimacy with your partner and a higher overall sense of happiness in daily life.

                                          In summary, key techniques for successful blowjobs include incorporating teasing, and integrating high-speed strokes for heightened pleasure. To further elevate the experience, consider experimenting with the following additional tips.

                                          • Improve the feeling of ejaculation by stopping
                                          • Lotion blowjob
                                          • Anaconda blowjob
                                          • Tornado blowjob

                                          No matter what kind of play you do, it is always a good idea to incorporate a stop that will increase the feeling of ejaculation.

                                          In addition, anyone can become an expert in blowjobs with lotion as long as they master the basic techniques, so try using it the next time you have sex.


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